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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
If someone`s mars is hitting a few of your personal planets in hard aspects can that make the mars person have strong uncontrollable sexual attraction towards the other person and step out of line?
The interesting word you used here is "uncontrollable." No man's sex drive is uncontrollable. He may not have control of it, but that is him, not astrology.
Notice how such synastry feels early on. If you don't like how it feels (without worrying yourself consciously with the thought of it), then don't consider it a compatible relationship.
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Also if the other planet person got their Venus in the mars person`s 8th house too is this even more likely to be a chance of happening?
No.
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Originally posted by VestasLight:
...The person's natal chart is what counts first and foremost. Does that person have a temper? Issues with power? Authority? Are they highly sexed? Do they connect emotions with sex? So many factors are involved.It always comes down to the natal...
Agreed. No synastry can compel any man or woman to be a rapist or molester.
And all astrological energies hold both positive constructive and negative destructive tendencies. The outcome is determined by free will choices, which are most heavily influenced by early life development.
We also don't have to hold space for the worst case scenarios between two people in order to see incompatibility between them. I have Asc/Pluto opposite my wife's Mars, and my Mars parallel her Saturn. None of that, and nothing she could ever do would somehow spur me into worst case scenarios. I did not consider our synastry before I got with her or married her. I have no 'buyer's remorse'. She's the best thing that ever happened to me, because Spirit brought us together (no accident).
Spiritual integrity -- it's what determines how a person expresses the energy potentials in astrology, even if they know nothing of it.
The problem is that so many people are so hard up for a 'soul mate' that they'll egg on the 'chemistry' and overlook yellow or red flags about a prospect.
TRUST YOURSELF and know you deserve the best: Someone who appreciates you as you are. You may have to wait longer than you'd like for that, but insist on it.
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